Many foreigners choose to settle down in China, is it right or wrong? No one knows because there is no right or wrong in love relationship, why?
Many foreigners will think that Chinese is very cunning and the locals always thinking of leaving China taking advantage of foreigner’s identity to help them become foreign citizen. Typical example nowadays is Chinese gals register their marriage to Hong Kong aiming to get Hong Kong residency and passport. Is it legal, of course “yes” but who could judge if this marriage is real or fake because there is no standard to judge “love”! Only time can tell hence when Chinese register their marriage in Hong Kong must wait after 7 years to get their residency, smart move.
Chinese especially gals always thinking of getting rich and always the shortest and easiest path is to marry a rich foreigner. Is this real or fake love? Is it love or just a business deal even marrying an old man? Is it fair making use of your companion’s love and feeling to get back monetary benefits only for your own satisfactory? When you go for a dine with your love ones do you think a romantic atmosphere can succeed without “money” in nowadays society? Hence many foreigners indirectly also using their wealth to buy “love”, short-term or long-term is like buying share in stock market, rise or drop is all base on your judgment.
Other love maybe due to background so called “门当户对”, families of equal standing. Rich foreigner must marry to a rich Chinese gal or vice versa but sometimes this is arranged by their families, motive is to expand their business empire or continue to their next generation instead bringing in happiness, is it very ironic? This happens often in Chinese society so called “相亲”, match-making.
Lastly the most practical or I should say the fastest way to get marriage with a foreigner regardless your target accepts or not is “shot-gun marriage”! Using your unborn child to threaten or getting sympathy from his parent to arrange your marriage. Is it ethical or real love? Who knows but who cares, no risk no gain but never use love only for yourself satisfactory but most important is mutual understandings, both must sacrifice and devote!
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